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Kelly Bonanno

Real Estate Agent

Relationships

June 26, 2025 By Kelly

This Is A Pivotal Step For A Good Dating Experience

Dating is fun, falling in love is great, but every relationship brings up some of our ‘stuff’.

 

In the years that my marriage began deteriorating, one of my biggest problems was that I didn’t take time for self-care and did not prioritize loving myself.

I was buried in raising young kids, household responsibilities, keeping up my blog and website, trying to have a social life…

 

When I realized self love is the crux of everything and is the catalyst for every other relationship in our lives, something inside me changed.

 

Learning to love myself, was yes, incredibly important, but equally important was realizing that it did not mean loving every single thing about myself.  “If I’m not perfect then I’m not worthy” was faulty thinking

A crucial thing to remember is…

The most important relationship you’ll ever have is with yourself 💜

 

Loving yourself also means forgiving yourself, and remembering that we are not supposed to be perfect.

We can’t be expected to make the best decisions in every single situation.

We are here to learn lessons.

That means personal development, personal growth and grounding ourselves.

When we are grounded, we are more likely to be at our best.

 

There are exercises that I take my clients through to cultivate self love.

 

I can help you do that too.

 

If you’d like to discover what that would look schedule a free Intro Date Coaching Session here. .

 

À ta vie amoureuse!

May 16, 2024 By Kelly

I Think I Found The One!

If you are single and dating you have no doubt experienced a multitude of frustrations… ghosting, breadcrumbing, submarining, benching, situationships, emotionally unavailable women, men who can’t commit… the riff raff… the undateable.

And the general consensus is that the apps are worse than ever.

You’re not alone. Modern dating is undeniably challenging, but it can also be fun and it should be.

Believe me, I get it. I understand.

If you want a meaningful relationship with lasting love but you’re feeling discouraged, disheartened, anxious, confused…

Good news, help is on the way 💜

I Think I Found The One Virtual Summit is just what you need.

I am bringing together a remarkable panel of thought leaders sharing innovative strategies and methods to navigate dating with confidence, be less apprehensive and not only succeed but also enjoy your dating journey!

I’m on a mission to make dating fun and help you succeed so you will find yourself saying, ‘I think I found the one!’

If you are uncertain, fearful, apprehensive, feeling lonely, sick of matching with the riff raff, the undateable this series is for you.

Join us for I Think I Found The One Virtual Summit: Experts reveal secrets to help you navigate dating with confidence, enjoy the journey & find lasting love!

>>> I have a complimentary ticket for you to attend.

You can register using this link >> https://datingwithkelly.com/ 

If you can’t make it to every session, sign up anyway I will send you a replay, you won’t miss a thing!

 

The holidays are right around the corner, wouldn’t you love to have someone special to spend them with?

Empower yourself with the knowledge and support you need to navigate the often challenging and confusing journey of dating with resilience, confidence and success.

It’s online, you will be able to watch from the comfort of your home, office or on the go.

 

🎤 Our esteemed speakers will delve into a diverse range of topics designed to equip you with the tools you need to navigate dating with courage and confidence and fun.

Here’s what is going to be covered in the VIDEO INTERVIEWS:

✨ First date dos and don’ts

✨ Strategies and secrets to thriving with dating, engaging and magnetizing your people

✨ How to spot a narcissist in early dating and head for the hills!

✨ Why the dating apps aren’t working for you and how to change that

✨ Where to meet people offline IRL

✨ The benefits, perks and advantages of matchmaking

✨ Steps to uncover love blocks and barriers so you can call in the one

✨ Recognizing patterns and blindspots that may be getting in your way

✨ Steps to move on from a break up and trust again

✨ Handling conflict & how to know if your communication styles are compatible

✨ The dos and don’ts of dating to have fun and attract high quality people

✨ Bolstering self love, self-worth and inner validation for dating success

✨ Navigating alcohol-free dating

✨ How to talk about and handle sex while dating

✨ How to look and feel your best so you can show up more confident

✨What to wear on your dates

… and more!

These interviews are REAL, short and to the point insightful CONVERSATIONS with thought leaders who have not only triumphed in life and love but have also helped countless individuals flourish.

You will walk away with comprehensive actionable strategies that you can implement immediately to create positive change and thrive in the dating world.
Register here with your complimentary ticket >> https://datingwithkelly.com/ 

 

If you can’t make it to every session, sign up anyway I will send you a replay, you won’t miss a thing!

You also have FREE access to a bevy of fantastic resources to help you navigate the process, embrace your future with open arms and discover the joy that dating can bring that leads to passion and love. 

If you miss anything there will be replays. 

🌟 Who Should Attend:

  • Singles ready to embrace new opportunities in love
  • People who want to learn effective dating strategies
  • Anyone seeking a fresh start in their love life, with expert guidance

Share this link & bring a friend!  https://datingwithkelly.com/ 

Don’t miss out on this life-changing event designed to empower you on your dating journey. I Think I Found The One Summit will equip you with tools and inspiration you need to thrive in the dating world!

Whether you’re new to dating, returning after a break, or simply looking to refresh your approach this series can help you.

We can’t wait to see you there!

May 8, 2024 By Kelly

Dating In The Modern World Coaching Program

You’re out there on the dating scene and it sucks. If that’s true for you, you are not alone. The $#*% that goes on in dating these days is horrible… ghosting, breadcrumbing, cat fishing, orbiting, benching, love bombing, pocketing… are you over it?

It’s the wild wild West out there isn’t it?

Maybe you’ve taken a break and you are reluctant to get back out there on the dating scene.

Or perhaps it’s going fairly well but you haven’t met anyone super special or you’ve been ghosted…

maybe you’re nervous and find it scary and discouraging.

It’s especially daunting and confusing if you’re divorced and we weren’t even dating before the apps and online dating sites were even around.

Dating is different than it was before the apps and there’s a lot to navigate.

As hard as dating can be, there are quality people out there that you will love spending time with, and the feeling will be mutual.

Sometimes it’s hard to believe that, right? I get it.

The problem is, many people have trouble dating for a myriad of reasons.

Some self sabotage, some are avoidant, some are choosing the wrong people over and over again, and so many other reasons…

It’s not your fault, our blind spots get in our way. 

I want you to find the fulfilling meaningful relationship that you want.

This is exactly what I help people do. 

Whether you are back out on the dating scene after divorce or dating to marry…

I’m passionate about helping people like you transform your dating life and attract your dream partner.

I can empower you to view your worth, love yourself and look at dating from a fresh perspective so you can find the meaningful relationship you desire.

Loneliness is at an all time high. A recent Cigna US report shows 63% of men and 58% of women are lonely. If you are lonely, you are certainly not alone and I am here to help.

I’m passionate about empowering you to find your self-worth, transform your dating life and find a meaningful relationship. 

I welcome the opportunity to work with you.


✳️  Receive focused individual personal help, guidance, support and accountability in navigating your dating and love life

✳️  You will have a safe place to discuss everything and feel seen, heard and understood. 

✳️  We will address your concerns and fears and identify barriers that may be standing in the way.

✳️  Well uncover what has blocked you from lasting love and how to change that.

✳️  We’ll focus on your strengths, clarify your priorities and come up with strategies to help you overcome obstacles, deal with challenges and move past limiting beliefs.

✳️ Discover tips, tricks, tools and strategies for improving your success on the dating apps and meeting people in real life

✳️  We will map out a plan for you to get results that starts with the most important relationship you’ll ever have, the relationship of yourself

✳️  Be empowered to build strength and resilience, gain valuable insights and make the dating process fulfilling, meaningful and fun 

✳️ Email support between sessions

The Dating In The Modern World Method can help you:

  • Date with confidence
  • Have fun dating
  • Find an exciting fulfilling relationship
  • Build strength and resilience 
  • Bust through limiting beliefs, self sabotage and negative thoughts holding you back
  • Stop jealous and obsessive thoughts and respond to triggers in a healthy way
  • Enhance self trust and self confidence, grow your self-esteem, self-love, self worth so you have a powerful foundation 
  • Look and feel great and become the best version of yourself
  • Love the next chapter of life, go from where you are to living the dream life you want
  • Find the one!!!

>>>Click here to apply and book a call with me<<<

This is a no cost discovery call to explore if coaching with me is a good fit for you.

Thank you for your interest in working with me!

“I used Three Day Rule and Kelly Bonanno as my personal Matchmaker. Her genuine personality, warmness, and attention to detail related to matching me, far exceeded my expectations. From our very first face to face interaction, I knew I was in great hands. I can truly attest that she is a 5 star Matchmaker. Her expertise at her craft is one of the reasons I am now in a blossoming new relationship. I would recommend Kelly 10 out 10 times.” ~JJ, DMV, Maryland

À ta vie amoureuse!

October 1, 2023 By Kelly

Sick Of The Dating Apps? Try this!

 

The dating apps can work but it’s time consuming trying to find someone you’d actually like to go out with and a bit of a numbers game.

And let’s face it, if you’ve been working them for a while you might be a bit exhausted by it. Or completely and totally over them!

 

Did you know that along with being a Life & Wellness coach I’m also a Matchmaker?

 

That’s right, I’m a Matchmaker with Three Day Rule, a Modern Matchmaking company with a team of expert Matchmakers and Dating Coaches across 12 cities.

I’m looking to meet amazing singles!

 

👉🏼 Are you single and want to date &/or ready to prioritize finding a relationship?

Sign up for free to meet with a Matchmaker or be in our private database of matches (for our Matchmakers’ eyes only):

https://www.threedayrule.com/pool/kellybonanno

 

We get you on better dates, more efficiently.

We will change the way you date.

Stop wasting time and energy on the apps and finally meet someone you align with.

👉🏼 I’d love to meet your single friends too!

Send them this link 💌:  https://www.threedayrule.com/pool/kellybonanno

 

 

December 8, 2021 By Kelly

Matchmaking!

In addition to being a life and dating coach, I am also an expert matchmaker with Three Day Rule! You can learn more about that here.
The dating apps can work but if you are like the several people I’ve talked to who say they are getting worse I hear you.
If you’re looking for a meaningful relationship try matchmaking!
Sign up here to be in our FREE dating pool – it’s completely confidential!
If you’re interested in becoming a matchmaking client, you can schedule a quick call here o get your questions answered.

August 27, 2018 By Kelly Leave a Comment

I’ve Wanted To Tell This Story For 16 Years. Here It Is.

Are you a breastfeeding mom or were you, like me, once upon a time a breastfeeding mom who found breastfeeding so damn hard you couldn’t even believe it? I had an incredibly difficult time coupled with postpartum issues. Postpartum & breastfeeding issues are more common than you might think. In fact, in my experience, breast feeding difficulties are more common than not.

Most women I’ve talked with had some type of hardship surrounding their breastfeeding experience. Many have such a sucky (no pun intended) time they just give up. For better or worse, I persevered.

As tough as it was, I never lost sight of the fact that I was blessed with a healthy, thriving, fun baby who allowed me to experience a love I never knew existed.

I’ve felt compelled to share my own difficult breastfeeding & postpartum story for 16 years. I finally do in this video

At the time, I knew I’d write about it one day. I thought I’d do it sooner but all things happen at the right time. 20% of women in the U.S. suffer from anxiety and mood disorders before or after pregnancy and it can last up to 3 years postpartum.

Both of my pregnancies was great but I suffered postpartum anxiety after my first. I’m so far removed from that point in my life but I remember it like it was yesterday. Perhaps you had a similar experience and will relate to my story. One thing I know for sure, if you did or if you are currently, you are not alone.

A national survey conducted by Every Mother Counts, Seleni Institute, Peanut, Motherly and Maven, revealed that the majority of women reported experiencing both depression and anxiety. I distinctly remember thinking I am going to write about this one day because I cannot possibly be the only mom going through this but this was 2002. Facebook didn’t exist and blogs weren’t nearly what they are now. No time like the present and especially fitting because August is National Breast Feeding Month and I recently had a conversation with my niece who went through a similar experience after giving birth to her beautiful daughter in January.

I want to share my story because since then I’ve met so many  women who have been in the same exact boat. If you have a similar experience, I want you to know you are not alone or crazy like I thought I was. 

I share much more in this video I did in my Facebook group which you are welcome to join… 

I have been wanting to share my difficult postpartum story for 16 years. Here it is.

I have been wanting to share my difficult postpartum story for 16 years. Here it is. Postpartum & breast feeding Issues are more common than you might think

Posted by Savvy Girl's Organic World With Kelly Bonanno on Wednesday, August 15, 2018

It was of upmost importance to me to be able to feed my baby the almighty breastmilk to give him the zillions of immune boosting health benefits, particularly being such a wellness advocate advocate. And frankly I figured it would be easier than having to make bottles and drag them along and certainly cheaper, breastmilk is free.

Mommy & Me play group with 6 month old Joey

In the video, I share that I unknowingly nearly starved my son for the first few days. He latched on just fine so I had no idea no milk was coming out. I did everything possible including hiring a lactation consultant.

I also talk about the circus it was and the rigors I went through weighing him, nursing him, weighing him again to see what measly little milk I might’ve given him… then making a bottle to supplement after which I had to pump to try to encourage my mammary glands to start making milk on their own and hopefully increase milk production.

The whole process was so freaking long by the time I was done feeding him it was practically time to feed him again! I now realize why wet nurses were popular at a point in time. 

I also reveal how I finally, after months of screwed up sleep patterns, got him to sleep through the night and become a good napper. I literally thought I would never be able to leave the house. I was almost delirious. The sleep deprivation was brutal and made me nuts. That coupled with the postpartum anxiety I was experiencing and lack of support made me so damn irritable.

Me & my sweet baby 2003

As rough as it was, he was a sweet, fun baby… the light of my life. I was fortunate to have plenty of wonderful times with him during that first year and more and more with each passing year. I expound a great deal in the video, I wonder how many of you can relate in any way. Drop a comment, I’d love to hear from you.

I want to share my story because since then I’ve met so many  women who have been in the same exact boat. If you have a similar experience, I want you to know you are not alone or crazy like I thought I was.

July 7, 2016 By Kelly Leave a Comment

5 Healthy Reasons You Should Kiss More Often XOXO

A deep, long, sensual kiss doesn’t just make you feel good, it’s good for you xx. It’s National Kissing Day ? here are 5 good reasons to make out right now…

Photo credit: shutterpal via <a

Photo credit: shutterpal via <a

  • Kissing can reduce blood pressure by helping to dilate blood vessels
  • Because it dilates blood vessels, kissing can alleviate headache and menstrual cramps
  • You can burn a few calories ~ up to 16
  • It boosts your mood by releasing oxytocin, serotonin and dopamine, our body’s feel good chemicals
  • Some serious tongue action can help tone your facial muscles

Plus, it often leads to sex which has even more health benefits!

“Happiness is like a kiss. You must share it to enjoy it” ~Bernard Meltzer

March 14, 2016 By Kelly Leave a Comment

When In Rome… Top 5 Romantic Spots In The Eternal City

Guest post by David @ Canarias

Whether you’re on your honeymoon, travelling to propose or taking a much needed vacation, there are few destinations as romantic as Rome. Sweep your partner off their feet through an exciting, thrilling, and romance filled holiday in Rome, the city of love and romance.

Photo credit: Christopher Chan via VisualHunt.com / CC BY-NC-ND

Photo credit: Christopher Chan via VisualHunt.com / CC BY-NC-ND

Tranquil spots where you can grab a moment and create special, unforgettable memories to take back home…

Parco Savello

Packed with orange and rose gardens, this place is bliss. Sit and talk near Trastevere River or take a leisurely walk hand in hand in the orange grove. If you’re visiting during the rose season, you are sure to enjoy some of the most fabulous fragrances.

Baths Of Caracalla

This open area dates back to 216 A.D. This massive stone structure sits on plush green grass making this place extraordinary. Since it is not buzzing with tourists, you can absolutely have privacy with your lover.

Our honeymoon...

Our honeymoon…

Spanish Steps

For a classic Italian romantic moment this is the place to visit. It can be bustling with tourists but if you’re looking for an iconic place to propose the Spanish Steps is a gorgeous scenic spot.

 

 

Gianicolo Park

Gianicolo Park is less crowded so you will find a privacy to enjoy romantic moments with your company. Take your time in relishing this beautiful spot, walking arm in arm in the park.

Villa D’Este

This amazing place boast the sight of over four hundred fountains. It may be the most romantic scene that you’ll ever come across. Located about half an hour outside the city of Tivoli, it is not to be missed.

Rome is the place to celebrate love

 

April 26, 2015 By Kelly Leave a Comment

Silent Sunday

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April 7, 2015 By Kelly Leave a Comment

5 Reasons Sex Is Fabulous For Your Health

The most pleasurable activity on earth is also a vital component to a healthy lifestyle

Sex Is Good For Your Heart Studies show that this incredibly fun way to raise our heart rate cuts risk of heart attack and stroke by 50% when we get busy at least twice a week. Sex also helps balance testosterone and estrogen levels. Low levels of these hormones lead to health issues including heart disease and osteoporosis

Sex Relieves Stress & Anxiety This is an obvious one, we’re all familiar with that euphoric feeling good sex leaves us with. It does more than just make us feel good, our circulatory, respiratory and nervous systems relax right after sex. Even hugging and touching release our body’s feel good hormones

Tangling The Sheets Lowers Blood Pressure Studies reveal that sexual intercourse lowers both diastolic and systolic blood pressure

Suffer From Back Pain, Headaches, PMS? Get Busy. Oxytocin levels spike just before orgasm is reached which releases pain relieving endorphins. That will put an end to that age old excuse, “not tonight honey, I have a headache”

Sexual Activity Boosts Your Immune System Knocking boots 1 – 2 times a week is shown to increase the antibody immunoglobin by 30%

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